7 attitudes that make a woman inpatient with a broke man

Being broke is a situation that only few, if not none can deny. Men and women face it. A times due to joblessness or several other reasons.

Now, while some women can put up with a broke man, some can't.

Below are attitudes that most women hate in a broke man,especially their man.

 1. Laziness - Some ladies can only put up with a broke man, if they see the eagerness to be independent/free. Now I'm not referring to a sugar boy.

A man who is used to being catered for by female admirers may easily fall in love with laziness.

Most ladies hate laziness in a broke man. A hardworking man is promising.

2. Pride/arrogance - Arrogance often times, is the WRONG defense mechanism put up by some broke men. It sees insult in every harmless move by a lady. It is the reason why some men would rather remain broke than take up a menial job.

I heard the story of one who refused to accept a job offer because it came through his in laws. His wife was bitterly complaining about his attitude.

Insecurities stemming from being broke has frustrated the harmless effort of many women to help their man out of being chronically broke.

It has lead to the frustration , loneliness and break up/divorce in many cases.

3. Wasteful spending  - While some women are wasteful in spending, some men also are ,not minding their brokeness.  No woman wants to put up with a man who doesn't care about cutting his expenses to be able to ease labour for his woman and get out of brokeness. Excessive drinking ,especially on credit is wasteful.

4. Poor investment IQ - Every woman wants a man who knows how to easily see opportunities to break out of brokeness. A man who is obviously  investment oriented can easily sustain the trust and support of his woman,to get out of brokeness. Poor investment ability  is the reason why many are broke. They hardly patiently study and invest wisely. Some easily fall for ponzi schemes.

5. Broken Unfounded promises - nobody loves being taken for granted. One of the ways to show this is by making promises when one clearly knows that the means to fulfill them doesn't exist.

No woman wants a man who doesn't control the way he makes promises.

Pleasant surprises are better than broken promises.

6. Unwillingness to partner - no woman wants to put up with a man who is so dominance - driven that he is unwilling to partner with his woman, in order , to be financially okay. Some men became their woman's employee to be able to be free from brokeness.

Insecurities blinded most men from winning. 

7. Verbal abuse / ungratefulness - 

" if you don't have money, at least have a good mouth " Anonymous 

Out of frustration, some broke men become verbally and a times physically abusive of their woman. Just like some broke female folks, some men don't appreciate the efforts made by their woman and friends towards them.

Some need to be encouraged by their woman to be thankful for financial help rendered by others.

Instead of being grateful  some of we men would rather resort to belittling.

Such attitude drains a woman's efforts and opens the door to depression and loneliness.

Remember : Hurt people hurt others. It's an ugly cycle.

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